Na'ae shaadi shodah jode ko kin alfaaz me doa deni cha'hiae ?
Aaj'kal shaadiyon ka mausam hai taqriban rozaana shaadiyan ho rahi hain, kisi bhi shaadi shuda jode ko achhi zindagi ki shoru'aat ke liae chand kaam karna bahot zaruri hai, oun me se aek ye hai ke dono ko doa deni chaahiae.
Lekin sawaal ye hai ke dulha aur dulhan ko kin alfaaz me doa deni chaahiae ?
Jo doaa'aen nure khoda maasumin (صلوات الله عليهم) se waarid huei hain oun hi doaa'on ke alfaaz ko eistemaal kiya jaa'ae to bahot zeyaadah moas'sir aur behtar hai is liae ke maasum ki zabaan-e-mobaarak se nikle huae jumlon ki jo khubsurati aur taasir wa nuraaniyat hai wo kisi aur jumle wa alfaaz me nahi ho sakti.
aek mokhtasar aur baa'asar doa tamaam momenin ki khidmat me pesh karne ki sa'aadat haasil kar raha hun
jab amirul momenin Ali (عليه السلام) ka aqd janaabe Zahra (سلام الله عليها) se ho gaya to Rasul-e-khoda (صلى الله عليه وآله) ne farmaaya ab tum dono apne ghar jaao
rokhsati ke waqt aap ne kaa'aenaat ke aise be'Nazir, laa'jawaab aur aasmaani dulha aur dulhan ke liae is tarah doa farmaa'ei :
" جَمَعَ اللهُ بَينَكُمَا ، وَ بَارَكَ فِی نَسلِكُمَا، وَ اَصلَحَ بَالَكُمَا "
Jama'allaho baynakoma, wa baaraka fi naslekoma, wa aslaha baalakoma
is ka matlab ye hai :
"tum dono ko allah jamaa wa aekath'tha rakhe, aur tum dono ki nasl me barkat ataa kare, aur tum dono ke haal ki eislaah farmaa'ae (yaani dono ka haal san'waar de, dono ki aaqebat ba'khair kare)"
(bahaarul anwaar jid 43 p 122 matbuah mo'as'sasah wafa)
Ye doa nehaayat jaame, kaafi aur waafi hai
is me baa'hami ta'alloqaat wa ittefaaq, aapas me mehrbaan rahne, aulaad wa naslon me barkat aur aaqebat ba'khair hone ki darkhaast ki gaei hai
dulha aur dulhan ke baap maa, buzurg aur bade wa chhote sabhi, nekaah ke baad khosusan jab dulhan apne susraal jaane lage to dulha aur dulhan ki sa'aadat aur khush'bakhti ke liae ye doa padh sakte hain
albatta waaledain ki doaa'aen aulaad ke haq me jald qabul ho jaati hain
Syed Shamshad Ali Katokhari
Khaadim-e-edaara-e-darul itrat moqim Qumul Moqaddasa /Iran
20 / rabi'ous'saani / 1443 H.Q
Saiyed md Tabish has translated from Urdu to Roman Urdu.
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