sawaal az : ............
Salam... Mera question ye hai ke kya shaadi se pehle ladka ladki aapas me baat kar sakte hain ladki ke ghar waale raazi hain lekin Ladke ke ghar waale raazi nahi hain.. To kya sahi hai baat karna aapas me ? Jab ke ladki ke saare ghar waalon se Ladke ki baat ho chuki hai alaawa us ladki ke.. Hame please personal par hi answer kar den..
Jawaab :
باسمه تعالى
عليكم السلام و رحمةالله و بركاته
agar shaadi karne ka aeraada mosmmam wa pakka hai to baat kar sakte hain lekin chand sharton ke saath :
- lazzat haasil karne ka aeraada wa qasd na ho
- haraam me padne ka khadsha na ho
- fitna wa fasaad ka sabab na ho
- ladki aur ladka mokammal sharm-o-haya ka paiykar ( پیکر ) ban kar baat karen
- baat wa kalaam zarurat se zeyaadah na ho balke hasb-e-zarurat wa neyaaz ho
- aapas me mahabbat wa raaz-o-neyaaz ki baaten na hon jaiyse mezaah, aasheqaana kalaam ...
is liae ke sirf nisbat taiy ho jaane se ladka ladki miyaan biwi qaraar nahi paate
shar'an donon aek dusre ke liae ous waqt tak naa mahram wa ajnabi hain jab tak donon ka aqd na ho jaae
behtar hai ghar waalon ki reza mandi wa ham'aahangi se baat karen
Mashwera :
agar ghar waalon se ladke ke ta'alluqaat dostaana wa be takallufaana hain to adab wa aehteraam ke saath khud ghar waalon se baat kare
ya kisi qaribi rishtedaar ya buzurg ... wa qaabil-e-aetemaad se kahe ke wo ghar waalon ko raazi karen
jab shari'at ne baat karne ki aejaazat di hai to wo raazi keyun nahi hote ? shaayad oun ke paas koei maaqul dalil aur wajah ho
والسلام
syed shamshad ali katokhari
khaadim-e-edaara-e-darul itrat azim Aabaad / patna - shoba-e-sawaalaat Qum / iran
۔16 / ربيع الثانى / 1441ھ.ق
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